The Miscellaneous Thread

@Stephen since an actual man has never had the talk with you about women, I feel obliged to pick up that mantle, because your concept of them and how the game works is like something from a Pixar film. This is how it is. Pay attention.

A) The fact that those girls regard you as one of their own isn't an accolade, it's an indictment. What they're really saying is that they are about as sexually disinterested in you as it is possible to be--so disinterested, in fact, that they feel comfortable enough to include you in activities that any male they would be interested in would be excluded from automatically. You have somehow--and rather amazingly-- reached the gay male friend tier. You will never enjoy the sexual attention of the women in that group, and they are ruined to you forever.

B. There are three things all women are attracted to; confidence, status, and power. Work on all three, you won't have to try to get girls. Let me be clear however; the first in that holy trifecta does not mean you should bloviate about how awesome you are, and become a general ******. Confidence in the sense that you know who you are, what you want, and what you don't. You must have standards, and must not be shy about applying them to women, and what you want and expect from them. Women enjoy being given direction. They are looking for you to lead the dance.

C) There's an old saying; treat em' mean, keep em' keen. There's some degree of truth in this. If you go simping after a girl, offer to do her favours constantly, and heap praise upon her endlessly she will not respect you. She might keep you around to do **** for her, but ultimately you're just going to be the plush toy she goes blubbering to when chad thunder**** ****s around on her and breaks her heart. Make jokes about her. Call her out on her ********. Make fun of things she does and says occasionally. All women like a bit of misogyny sometimes. It's a bit like that Bukowski poem:

the girls are practicing on you
the girls are practicing for other men
for someone out of the jungle
for someone out of the lion cage.

D) Women are attracted to indifference. I'm not sure why this is exactly, but if I had to guess, it's because it's a challenge to the female ego which should never be underestimated. You see, in the world of sexual economics, women and men are different. Women need do virtually nothing to attract a partner. Men need to do rather a lot. This is because the sexual code underwriting us is different.There are two main reasons for this. The first is that sexual activity is far riskier for women than it is for men. You can't get pregnant, they can. They have far more skin in the game.

 The second is that you are designed to select a mate based purely on physical attributes. She is designed to select a partner on their ability to protect and provide. That's why we have sugar daddies and their pet twinks and trophy wives. It's also why women tend to choose bad boys when they're younger and nicer guys when they're older--oftentimes, after they've had a kid with aforementioned chad thunder**** and want Mr Rogers to keep them in in saks fifth avenue wiggle skirts and private school for someone else's kid later in life. This is basic female Hypergamy. Women are so conditioned to having their pick and choose of sexual partners that when somebody comes along who doesn't resort to ordinary simpery, this triggers their ego to manifest in such a way as to work for your attention. This is also why you immediately become more attractive to women when you have a girlfriend or a wife then when you don't, because it shows you've already been litmus tested. They are literally thinking 'well, if she's with him he must be doing something right'.

E) Most women have daddy issues, and all of them believe they don't. They're unconscious of it. You are more likely to turn a girl on by finding out what cologne her father wears and wearing it yourself than by leaving a bouquet on her doorstep.

F) Learn to get good in bed, but also know what that means is different to virtually every woman you will ever sleep with. Women are extraordinarily more sexually complicated than men, both physically and psychologically.

* Edited at 08.11.2022, 7:59 PM ET *

@Bellatrix to do that I'd actually need to date women.

G) Avoid women who use terms like 'serial monogamy'. 9 times out of ten, it's both a deflection and attempt on the behalf of the woman who uses it to justify/normalize her sexual abnormality, which will typically be expressed as ordinary rampant whorishness (which she will describe as being...'Liberated') and you can bet your bottom dollar she's handing it out like Jesus pamphlets.